Warming lubricants work :: almost the same way massage oils work. Take a small puddle in your hand and apply warming lubricant in a thin layer to the desired area. Rub it into your skin, applying more if it's necessary. As you continue massaging, the warming lubricant will begin to heat up. Your partner feels a pleasantly warm sensation. Warming lubricants are great for genital massage. Some warming lubricants can't be used with latex products. To avoid problems, read the label before using. You can apply them to the surface of your genitals. Be careful: some of the warmth-inducing elements of the lubricant may irritate skin; do a skin patch test before using during it sexual intercourse, otherwise your genitals may end up hotter than you intended.
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